A: Yes, sex is usually okay during pregnancy. In fact,
sometimes sex is great during pregnancy. All kidding aside,
sexual intercourse is safe for mother and child throughout
most pregnancies, with a few stipulations.
Women may be advised to
avoid intercourse during all or part of the pregnancy under
circumstances such as these:
- A history of miscarriage
- A history of preterm
labor or birth
- They are having preterm
labor during the current pregnancy
- Bleeding
- Cramping
- Infection
- Problems with the
placenta
- Incompetent cervix
Although you may feel
embarrassed, dont hesitate to ask your obstetrician if you
have any doubts about whats safe. If intercourse is ruled out
for you, remember that there are other forms of sexual
intimacy which can be very satisfying for both partners. One
practice thats never safe, though, is blowing air into the
vagina. This can create whats known as an air embolism, which
can be deadly to both mother and child.
Of course, some couples
arent as interested in sex during pregnancy. Others find it
more desirable and more pleasurable. The range of whats
normal is extremely wide. Late in pregnancy, its common for
couples to avoid sexual positions that put the partners
weight on top of the pregnant womans abdomen. Couples who are
able to talk openly with each other about their concerns and
emotions may have an easier time finding their comfort zones
when it comes to sexuality in pregnancy.
Date
Published: Dec. 16, 1999
Date Reviewed: Dec. 16, 1999
Nancy Snyderman, M.D., F.A.C.S |