 A NEW GUIDE TO RATIONAL LIVING
A NEW GUIDE TO RATIONAL LIVING 
              
                
              By Drs. Albert Ellis and Robert A. Harper
              
              Foreword by Melvin Powers  
              
              Years ago, after two decades of burning the midnight oil, reading 
              manuscripts 
              which professed to have all the virtues this one actually 
              possesses, I found the 
              original New Guide to Rational Livinga gem that has become a 
              classic in the 
              field of psychology.  
              
              Since then, I am delighted to say, I have sold 1.5 million copies 
              of this book 
              in previous editions. Numerous readers have thanked me for making 
              the book 
              available and have related how positively it has affected their 
              life.  
              
              Undoubtedly this new, updated edition will prove particularly 
              valuable to 
              present-day readers, who face unprecedented challenges in daily 
              living.  
              
              Those who have read a large number of euphoric and inspirational 
              books without 
              achieving lasting success will particularly appreciate this book. 
              For although A 
              Guide to Rational Living makes no promises, it can help readers 
              more than all 
              the other books put together.  
              
              In the first chapter of this extraordinary new edition of A New 
              Guide to Rational 
              Living, Drs. Albert Ellis and Robert A. Harper express the hope 
              that readers 
              will not jump to the conclusion that we hand out the same old 
              hackneyed, 
              Pollyannaish message that you may have long ago considered and 
              rejected as 
              having no practical value.  
              
              Because they use such words as creativity, happiness, love, 
              maturity, 
              and problem-solving, they are concerned that people will accuse 
              them of adding 
              one more book to the already lengthy list of those that promise to 
              make everyone 
              rich, happy, powerful, and emotionally matureall quickly and 
              easily.  
              
              They need not worry. Drs. Ellis and Harper have refreshing 
              humility in this era 
              of dogmatic formulas for living, and they see that constant 
              happiness remains as 
              elusive as moonbeams. As proof of this conviction, they have 
              termed the chapter 
              dealing with happiness Refusing to Feel Desperately Unhappy. 
              What a realistic 
              approach!  
              
              Actually, their associates had to talk these two prominent 
              psychologists into 
              doing their original book about the Rational Emotive Behavior 
              Therapy (REBT) 
              they practice, and they had to feel it would truly help others 
              before they wrote 
              a word. They still believe intensive individual therapy is 
              desirable in serious 
              cases, but they have also come to believe that a book can help a 
              certain 
              percentage of people who have the capacity for honest 
              self-evaluation.  
              
              This book, unlike others you have probably read, employs none of 
              the jargon 
              usually associated with psychology or psychiatry, and it may well 
              prove to be 
              the best book on psychotherapy for laymen ever written. It can 
              provide 
              emotionally disturbed individuals with many answers they seek, and 
              it can help 
              everyone to feel better about themselves and to deal with their 
              lives more 
              effectively.  
              
              The authors use a unique method of projecting their solutions to 
              common 
              problems. Thus, they point out that the individual who feels 
              inadequate and 
              insecure suffers from, for example, Irrational Belief No. 2: The 
              idea that you 
              must be thoroughly competent, adequate, and achieving.  
              
              Drs. Ellis and Harper use ten such ideas to bring out the scope of 
              their 
              psychotherapy, with subtle, helpful solutions that reflect their 
              vast experience 
              as therapists. They have training and a host of case histories, 
              taken from their 
              office charts, to buttress their advice. This not only makes for a 
              more 
              interesting book but creates confidence in the reader concerning 
              the techniques 
              suggested, all of which have proven effective in a clinical 
              setting.  
              
              Probably many readers will remember Dr. Albert Ellis as a 
              sexologist who has 
              done so much valuable work in this area that critics frequently 
              compare him to 
              the other EllisHavelock, a pioneer in sexual research. His books 
              in this field 
              have done an incalculable amount of good, particularly in freeing 
              people of 
              feelings of guilt stemming from their environments.  
              
              Dr. Harper has a similar background, and he possesses added 
              knowledge of 
              anthropology and sociology, both disciplines desirably 
              supplemental to 
              psychology. He has collaborated with Dr. Albert Ellis previously 
              and has worked 
              on other books in the area of rational therapy.  
              
              In this new edition of A Guide to Rational Living, as in the 
              original, Drs. 
              Ellis and Harper dissect the main emotional problems that humans 
              tend to have. 
              They present their ideas in a brilliant and all-encompassing 
              mannerso 
              brilliant, in fact, that I believe the reader will find more 
              answers than he or 
              she would in the average vis-ΰ-vis confrontation. I say this 
              despite the 
              disclaimers of both authors who ethically point out the 
              limitations of absent 
              therapy.  
              
              For one thing, the book proves less maddening than many personal 
              visits to 
              therapists who subscribe to the passive, nondirective method still 
              used by many 
              psychologists and psychiatrists. In this type of therapy all 
              questions are 
              answered by, You tell me.  
              
              Drs. Ellis and Harper make it clear they do not practice as the 
              orthodox 
              psychoanalyst...with whom we respectfully but wholeheartedly 
              disagree. Rather 
              than maintain the traditional Freudian silence, both therapists, 
              in the early 
              part of the treatment, indicate where the emotionally disturbed 
              individual...seems off the beam.  
              
              Their direct, get-to-the-heart-of-the-problem methods show wide 
              variance with 
              most orthodox treatments that drag on interminably with clients 
              never quite 
              knowing where they stand. As far as I can see, here certainly 
              lies, along with 
              group therapy, the direction psychotherapy will take if it intends 
              to make a 
              real contribution to comprehensive health.  
              
              If you feel you have the rigorous honesty necessary to conduct 
              self-analysis, 
              this book will be the most important one you have ever read. And 
              it will seem a 
              boon to those who cannot pay the high fees charged for individual 
              treatment. 
              I find so many excellent techniques explored in this book that I 
              would like to 
              mention many more. I feel deterred only by the fact that the 
              authors speak very 
              well for themselves.  
              
              You have my best wishes as you join the 1.5 million people who 
              have read and 
              greatly benefited from A Guide to Rational Living since my 
              publication of the 
              first edition. You have chosen to read a book that has set the 
              standard and that 
              likely will remain the standard for years to come.  
              
              Melvin Powers, Publisher 
              Wilshire Book Company
              
              
              
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